361 dtg!

Well.....I really don't know if this post is going to have much to do with the wedding.

I was talking to an acquaintance....someone who I took one class with at San Jose City a while ago. We still see each other at our places of work, and recently I mentioned that I am getting married in a year. He thought that was very cool and exciting; then he mentioned his girlfriend's sister who had her bachelorette party. Apparently they video taped it and wanted him to watch it with them. He thought that was weird and didn't want to see the craziness and left the room!? Who knows, maybe there was a male dancer.....or the chicas were just crazy.

Anyway, we got to talking and I said that I have seen/been to some crazy ones, but I am pretty conservative. He was surprised and didn't see me that way! It was interesting to realize that someone who hardly knows me would see me differently than I really am, or what I see myself to be. I don't dress crazy or outlandish and I am not necessarily the most outgoing person......but that is how I see myself. I sometimes forget that the slightest change in my actions or my appearance could cause someone to think that I am totally different than I really am. I find myself boring, conservative and shy......wonder what he sees?

Anyway, he reminded me that you only live once, and you only get married once....so might as well do it up big ya know!?? Hmmm.....we'll see.